This is
love... you then I and again... you then I.

We have been reminding Becca that in English, its not 'me and Janet' but 'but Janet and I'... that it's
firstly about the
other person then yourself. And I know that I keep
forgetting what I am meant to
remember, that in marriage
this is most true. That it is a constant
grace of bending. Of bending my will and need to be right and remembering that its the
meek that inherit. If we are
both thinking 'you then I' marriage works best.
I was reading in John 15 and He said, 'Love each other
as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this, that he
lay down his life for his friends', to lay it down, to bend, the
kind act of deferring to the other,
this is love, that is how He loved us and
showed us how to love others. My life and my wants and my mouth must
not be exalted but must lay down. This is
not popular these days and is not always easy but this works. For God resists the proud anyway but
gives grace to the humble.
"Self centeredness is the main enemy of any marriage' ~ T Keller
Real
love protects, trusts, hopes and perseveres.
Always.